Depending
on the number of social dos you are having, buy the appropriate
attire keeping in mind the wearability factor.
A
traditional and ritualistic wedding requires clothes that
are comfortable and relatively wrinkle-free. You should
select the design and the styles in line with the type of
wedding you are going to have.Don't leave anything for the
last moment. Have all the outfits ready at least a month
before each ceremony, so that there is time for alterations,
if there are any.

Dressing
Mehendi:
For a mehendi ceremony, a short and chic kurta with slight
embroidery is best suited. Wear a loose salwar so that you
can pull it up while applying mehendi to your feet.
Sangeet:
Get a very basic ghagra and choli that is well fitted and
with delegate embroidery. You can try embellishments like
crystals and sequins. If the sangeet is followed by a cocktail
then opt for Indo-Western styles.
Engagement:
Instead of going for a lehenga, which will be a one-time wear,
go for a designer saree for your engagement.
Wedding:
To look ravishing in her bridal lehenga is every girl's dream.
Also take care to co-ordinate your outfits with your partner.
It's very important that your clothes gel with his. He wearing
a black and you wearing red would look mighty garish. But
don't spend a fortune thinking that it could be passed on
as a legacy to your daughter. It's just not practical. Not
only will it becomne out of date but also there is no guarantee
that your size would fit your daughter as well! Go for traditional
colours like deeper hues of red, pink and orange when it comes
to the bridal lehenga, while carry with panache the experimental
shades in blues, peaches and lilac on your engagement.
If the wedding ceremonies are simple and relatively short,
you can go in for elaborate styles and the choice of material
is less restricted. But for a lengthy ceremony, if you choose
to wear a dress made of Organza or Taffeta, then you might
end up looking like a crumpled paper doll.
Reception:
The look for the reception should be balanced blend of traditional
and western design. Instead of the usual lehenga try opting
for a sharara or else an embroidered designer saree.
Jewellery
Now
comes the time to add a little dazzle to your attire and let
the brilliance of jewelry weave their spellon the beholder.
The right jewellery adds that special glitter to your look
that is so much associated with a bride. We have to begin
at the top, the head and accentuate every aspect of you with
appropriate jewellery till we reach the toes.
Maang-Tikka
: One
of the most important suhaag symbols is the maang tikka. A
rich reminder of the all important sindoor, and bindi, few
traditional brides are complete sans the tikka. It takes on
the colour and culture of all the regions and religions it
travel through in India.
In
Punjab and the Northern region, the tikka is inextricably
linked with suhaag symbols. Comprising a gold pendant on a
chain, the maang -tikka is worn in such a way that the chain
covers the central parting in the hair and pendant rests beautifully
above the centre of the forehead. Brides from Punjab and Uttar
Pardesh wear the tikka as part of their wedding ornaments.
- Earrings
- Nose
Ring
- Necklace
- Bangles
- Anklets
And Toerings
Accessories
The
accessories you use to go with your dress on the final day,
are very important, but we often fail to pay enough attention
to them in the brouhaha with the dressing and making up. You
must remember to select a pair of comfortable but stylish
sandals and a handbag to go with your dress. Then you must
have a nice lace handkerchief to match and a watch that either
blends with your jewelry or matches your style of dressing
Mehendi
The
application of mehendi on the girl's hands and feet was at
one time done by the female relatives or friends. Today, however,
the occasion usually involves the application of " Mehendi"
not just on the bride - to - be but also for her friends and
relatives by professionals, accompanied by singing, dancing,
rejoicing, and feasting.
Lingerie
People
always forget to include this very vital part clothing. This
is one area that requires as much care and attention as the
beauty regime you follow or the exercise routine you have.
A
good fitting undergarment ensures that you are comfortable
and hence do not have to keep fidgeting with either your Bra
straps, or your panty line. Next, you must choose the Bra
according to your vital statistics as well as the type of
clothes you will be wearing. If you are slightly built and
you appear to be flat chested, do choose a padded bra, but
if you are heavily built, select a bra with an under-wire
for support. This will give your bust line a much-needed boost.

Dressing
Opt
for Outfits that reflect your grooming image.
Gentleman
with small bones, or thin bodies, can go in for a narrow cut,
minimal padding, narrow lapels and close-fitting trouser-legs.
Those
with broad shoulders should opt for longish jackets, thin
shoulder pads, less bulky fabrics and the three-button, single
breast style. If you have a generous waist, do use striped
patterns. No checks, heavy fabrics or double-breasts.
As
for the fabric to be used at this most special of occasions,
super-fine wool or its blends are the groom's closest sartorial
ally. Wool-blends
are elastic, so no matter how often you sit down and get up
during the ceremony, your suit will hardly crease.
Accessories
- Do
invest in a good watch for the occasion, it is much more
than just a time-keeper.
- The
right silk tie can add flair, and so prove to be an asset.
- A
new pair of shoes, or jootis.
- Turban
if you are wearing a sherwani.
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